The 4th of July is one of those holidays that often comes with high expectations—big gatherings, late nights, fireworks lighting up the sky, and kids running around with sticky fingers and patriotic popsicles. But for families like ours, raising children with disabilities, this holiday can look a little different. And that’s not a bad thing. If you were looking for it, this is your permission slip to say you don’t have to celebrate that way.

If we’re being honest, we both know what it feels like to fall into the “Why me?” mindset. Life is full of curveballs—some small and laughable, others life-altering and deeply painful. We’ve both lived through plenty of those moments: the chaotic, the unexpected, the heartbreaking. And while our stories look different in the details, they meet in the same raw place—the one where you’re sitting in the middle of the mess, asking Why is this happening? Why us? Why our children?

When your child receives a diagnosis, it can feel like the label starts to speak louder than their laughter. This blog is a gentle reminder that your child is not defined by acronyms, paperwork, or medical terms—they are defined by who God says they are: known, loved, and wonderfully made. If you’ve ever felt like the world sees a condition before they see your kid, this one’s for you. Let’s reclaim the narrative—one introduction, one story, one truth at a time.

What do McDonald's French fries and motherhood have in common?
More than you think. One is oddly indestructible after years wedged between car seats. The other? A mother who shows up, again and again, in the face of exhaustion, setbacks, and chaos. This post is a love letter to resilient moms—especially medical moms—who don't just survive... they endure, with grit and grace. Discover the power of reframing, micro-joys, and community, and why you're not just a fry—you’re the whole basket.

At Lemon Cake, we don't pretend it's easy—but we do believe in choosing joy anyway. This post is a real look at what it means to balance honesty and hope, especially in the world of medically complex parenting. Come read how we’re choosing the bright side, even when it’s hard.

This Memorial Day, we pause to honor not only the brave men and women who gave their lives for our freedom, but also the families who carry on—especially those raising children with disabilities. At Lemon Cake, we’re lifting up the unseen strength of military families, highlighting meaningful organizations, and inviting our community to remember with purpose.

Two moms raising medically complex kids share their journey, faith, and create a space for support, joy, and real community.